"happy" marriage

As I was searching through the New York Times to find this story about a gay couple and how they wanted to get married , I came upon a link about about gay marriages and then on that website I found another link that looked interesting and so on. I finally stumbled upon this site that was called gaymarriages.com I clicked and and was just looking around the site.

As I was looking through this site I saw they had a tab for planning and my whole reason I wanted to talk about gay marriage was not to say whether its right or wrong , but if they plan their weddings the same as a male- female wedding. I dont think that male-female marriages have a wedding planning book, but im not sure.

I found that same sex marriage have a book though and one of them is called The Essential Guide to Lesbian and Gay Marriages. You have to actually buy the book to see what it is all about, but you can press on it and it gives you an outline and the really the only difference in planning that it talked about that would be different to male-female wedding planning was "How to be gay in a straight world" ,"How to tell your family" , "Same Sex Marriage" "Dealing with Gay Business" and then all the rest of the chapters are about the normal guest list, invitations, catering, vows, etc.

http://www.amazon.com/dp/1555834841?tag=gayweddings07-20&camp=14573&creative=327641&linkCode=as1&creativeASIN=1555834841&adid=0QEF436ZND4WXKBACJWD&#reader_1555834841

Abby & Laura

As I was searching through this site, some of my questions got answered about who would be the girl or the guy ? who will wear the engagement ring? etc. I read this story about Abby and Laura and people would ask Laura why she wears the ring and Laura said "Abby wears the ring because it looks so beautiful on her , and she wears it for the both of us."

Someone else asked who was the girl in the relationship and Abby replied, " We're both girls silly ! We're both bossy , which is why we made up our own rules for this wedding."

Both Abby and Laura will be wearing white wedding dresses and Abby said that Laura could wear sneakers.

So really it does not matter what you do, its up to you, it your preference just like it would be in a male-female wedding.