1)Personality: do you get along with this person or are you silenty irritated by how they act? Personality is the most important factor and the hardest one to change.
2)Communication: Is one of you indirect or direct? Does one of you do most of the talking? Is on of you the silent type? Think back yo your conversations and see if they flow or are enjoyable to you.
3)Friends and family: Do you get along with their friends and family or this a source of stress in the relationship?
4)Health and Nutrition: Are you a health food nut or a junk food junkie? Is the only excercise you get channel surfing? See if your health food lifestyles match or not.
5)Finacial: Are you stingy or careless with your money? Money is the thing couples fight over most often. If you deal with your money the same it will be very helpful in the long run.
6)Educational: People tend to feel more comfortable if they have similiar life experiences, profesional opportunities and world views.
7)Intimacy) Does one of you like PDA and the other doesnt? Does one of you like to hug and kiss in public and your date may think its completely wrong. Having a mismatched style may caue resentment causing a problem in the future.
This is cool and so true!
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