In my previous post I talked about three questions you and your partner should ask yourself to see if you are ready for marriage...I want to talk more in depth about the communication part.
Communication is very vital in a relationship. If you can't talk and listen to each other , is the relationship going to go anywhere? No, because neither one of you will know how each other are feeling.
When talking to your partner you should not use "you-statements" which is whenever you are talking or arguing with your partner you point the finger at them and start every sentence with you. I-statements make everything go more smooothly. They are for example if you are fighting you could say "I feel like this when you do this" using I statements doesn't make the significant other want to get all defensive because you aren't blaming everything on them.
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