Wedding can be very stressful to plan because their is so much to do and brides just feel like they have no time after they set the date of their wedding. Disagreements may come up between the families, the bride and groom , the bride and mother and so on because everyone has a different piont of view on things.
scenerio 1. reception
You and your friends all like a great party, but your mother thinks drinking is wrong and does not want alcohol at the wedding.This is an area where a compromise can be made. Your mom maybe less worried about people having a glass of champagne for the toast and more about the younger guests getting too rowdy, so you can agree to only having wine at the reception and then after the reception the newlyweds and thier friends can have another party afterwards.
scenerio 2. wedding dress
Your mom wants you to wear her traditional long sleeve wedding gown with her strand of pearls but you want to wear a trendy modern dress with crystal bridal jewlery. You want to feel beautiful on your wedding day so you should wear what you want to wear, but you also dont want to hurt your mom's feelings so you can agree to wear her pearl necklace with a mix of the jewlery you want to wear and you can wear a little jacket with your dress during the ceremony. 
scenerio 3. Money
Budgeting is always hard to do when planning your wedding, after the dress, flowers, etc you spent over $1000 or more in a blink of an eye. If your parents are paying for your wedding which the brides parents are usually suapposed to or atleast help and the amount they want to spend does'nt see like nearly enough for what everything you wanted , you are going to have to budget your money so it does fit around that amount because you cant ask your parents to spend more money then what they want to. If you want to spend more money you might have to use money out of your own pocket.
These are just a couple of scenerios that involve conflicts when planning a wedding, the list could go on and on, but in the end after its all over and done with its all worth it!
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